the book is my bible

Hello I’m Mary.

I have been reading this book recently. 

The book was immediately added to my favorite book lists:). 

Now I’m into reading Psychological books from Adler. 

His words encourage me  and make me confident. Whenever I have some troubles about relationships or something, his thought gives  me a big power.

See the below, that is my favorite words.

” Suppose it rains; what can you do? You can take an umbrella or a taxi, but there is no use trying to fight the rain or overpower it. At present you are spending your time fighting the rain. “ 

I think that you don’t have to win everything. Because you  just waste your  time. 

Sometimes I try to come true my resolution which is high level for me but anytime I fail it and don’t carry out it. In the result, I feel like I’m  in a dark hell and can’t move out. 

So when I read it, I realized that I just wasted my precious time! There was no use trying to win something that I could never win. 

But why and when do I start to think of it like this? Probably the perfectionist is one of reasons I guess. I’m not sure I’m perfectionist but around my friends often say I am so. 

That’s why I like the words. I’d like to save myself. 

If  somebody is in a trouble, I highly recommend the book.